
How to discipline a dog with positive reinforcement?
Many dog owners confuse discipline with scolding or punishment, but the kindest and most effective way to guide your pup’s behavior lies in positive reinforcement.
It’s a scenario every dog owner knows: you call your pup’s name, maybe even clap or whistle, but she just keeps trotting toward that squirrel, or stops to sniff a bush like she didn’t hear a thing. That “come” command is one of the most important skills your dog can learn—not just for convenience, but for safety. A dog that ignores a call near a busy street or a crowded park could get hurt, which is why nailing this behavior matters more than you might think.
The first step is to make “coming” the best thing that happens all day. If your dog associates the command with something unpleasant—like the end of playtime, a bath, or getting scolded—she’ll learn to avoid it. Instead, keep a stash of her favorite treats handy. When she comes running, even if it takes a minute, shower her with praise, a treat, and a quick game of tug. Do this at home, in the yard, when she’s calm—build a habit where “come” means good stuff, not endings.
Timing is everything. If you yell “Come!” five times while she’s chasing a rabbit, and she finally saunters over, she’s learned that ignoring you works—you’ll wait. Instead, keep calls short and upbeat. If she doesn’t respond right away, walk toward her and gently guide her over, then reward. Over time, she’ll learn that responding quickly gets better rewards than dragging her feet.
Practice in low-distraction areas first. Start inside, where there’s not much to compete with your voice—maybe after a nap, when she’s relaxed. Once she’s zipping over every time, move to the backyard, then a quiet park. Add distractions slowly: toss a toy, have a friend walk by, then try it when there are other dogs around. Each step builds her focus, so she learns to tune out the fun stuff when you call.
Avoid punishing her when she finally does come. It’s frustrating when she takes 10 minutes to obey, but scolding or yanking her leash will make her think “coming” leads to trouble. Even if you’re annoyed, take a breath and reward the effort. You can work on speed later—first, you need her to want to come, no matter how slow.
For dogs that love to run, a long line can be a game-changer. Let her explore, then call her. If she ignores you, gently reel her in, praise her when she gets to you, and give a treat. The line keeps her safe while you practice, and takes the pressure off you to chase. Over time, she’ll get better at choosing to come on her own.
Patience goes a long way here. Some days she’ll ace it, others she’ll act like she’s never heard the word before. That’s normal. Keep sessions short, end on a good note, and celebrate every small win. Before you know it, that “come” command will be something she runs toward—not away from—and that trust? It’s the best part of having a dog.
Many dog owners confuse discipline with scolding or punishment, but the kindest and most effective way to guide your pup’s behavior lies in positive reinforcement.
When working with dogs, getting them to repeat good behaviors or stop unwanted ones often comes down to how we respond to their actions.
It’s a quiet evening in your apartment, and you’re settling in to watch a movie when the doorbell rings. Suddenly, your normally calm pup erupts into a frenzy of barking
That sinking feeling when you find shredded cushions or hear desperate barking echoing from your apartment as you return?
The moment your tiny ball of fur trots through the door, questions start swirling—especially about those inevitable accidents on the carpet.
Watching a tiny ball of fur tilt its head when you say its name for the first time might just be one of the sweetest moments of bringing home a new puppy.