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It’s a sunny afternoon in your neighborhood park, and your 1-year-old Australian shepherd, Cooper, is darting after a squirrel, his ears flapping.

It’s a sunny afternoon in your neighborhood park, and your 1-year-old Australian shepherd, Cooper, is darting after a squirrel, his ears flapping. You call his name, clapping your hands—“Cooper, come!”—but he barely glances back, nose to the ground. Panic flickers: “What if he runs into the street?” you think, fumbling for his favorite treats. If you’re a new dog owner, mastering “come” and “stay” feels like the holy grail of training. These commands aren’t just about obedience—they’re about keeping your pup safe, building trust, and fitting into your community’s pet rhythm.

Dogs learn best through positive associations, and their brains thrive on consistency. When you pair a command with a reward (like a treat or praise), their brains release dopamine, making them eager to repeat the behavior. A certified trainer in Denver explained: “Dogs don’t understand ‘good boy’ in words—they connect the tone of your voice and the treat with the action they just did.” This is why punishment (yelling or scolding) backfires: it makes them associate commands with stress, not joy. Their attention spans are short—5-minute sessions, 2–3 times a day, work better than long, frustrating ones. A golden retriever in her class mastered “come” in a week by using tiny bits of hot dog, never calling his name unless she had a reward ready—so he always knew “come” meant good things.

Teaching “come” starts indoors, where distractions are low. Kneel down, open your arms, and say “Cooper, come!” in a happy tone. When he runs to you, shower him with praise and a treat immediately—don’t make him wait. Gradually move to the yard, then the park, adding small distractions (like a toy) as he gets better. For “stay,” start with him sitting, hold your palm up like a stop sign, and say “stay.” Take one step back; if he stays, reward big. Build up to longer distances and more time, always returning to him to reward—never call him to you for the treat, or he’ll learn to break “stay” to get it faster. Keep sessions fun; end when he’s still excited, not tired.

Training ties into being a responsible pet owner in your community. First, stay legally on track: rabies vaccines are mandatory in all U.S. states, and keeping those records handy helps if your dog park or vet asks. When practicing “come” on walks, always carry poop bags—cities like Portland fine up to $250 for leaving waste, and it keeps shared spaces clean. In apartments, practice “stay” during quiet hours to avoid disturbing neighbors; a calm, trained dog is a good neighbor. Most importantly, never scold Cooper if he messes up—laugh it off, reset, and try again. Positive reinforcement builds trust, making him eager to learn, even on days when squirrels are extra tempting.

Watch Cooper now, trotting back when you call, tail wagging, ready for his treat. “Good come!” you say, and he plops down for “stay” without prompting. These commands aren’t just tricks—they’re the foundation of a safe, happy life together, one treat and one “good boy” at a time.

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