With its small and delicate body, fluffy and cute appearance, and lively and enthusiastic personality, the Pomeranian has become a favorite choice for many pet lovers. They are like little suns in life, always bringing endless joy and warmth to their owners with their full vitality and affectionate gestures. However, this characteristic of being extremely dependent on the owner also makes Pomeranians often fall into anxiety and unease when facing being alone. So, how exactly can we train Pomeranians to learn to be alone, allowing them to spend time calmly and comfortably when the owner is away temporarily? This not only concerns the dog's mental health but also is an important issue that every Pomeranian owner needs to seriously face.
The Pomeranian originated in Germany and was initially bred for tasks such as herding sheep. Although nowadays they mostly live in families as companion dogs, their loyalty and dependence on the owner ingrained in their nature have never changed. They are extremely sensitive to the owner's emotional changes. Every move and word of the owner can tug at their heartstrings. When the owner is at home, Pomeranians often follow closely behind the owner like little shadows, longing to receive the owner's attention and companionship all the time. Once the owner leaves, they will feel lonely and scared due to the loss of this close connection, which in turn triggers a series of behavioral problems.
To help Pomeranians learn to be alone, we first need to understand why they resist being alone so much. Separation anxiety is the main problem that Pomeranians face when they are alone. When the owner goes out, Pomeranians will feel abandoned and be filled with unease and fear. This anxiety may cause them to bark continuously, trying to call the owner back with their voices; some Pomeranians will run around the house, damaging furniture and biting objects to vent their inner tension; and some Pomeranians may experience a loss of appetite and listlessness, with both their physical and mental states being severely affected. Therefore, training Pomeranians to be alone is actually helping them overcome separation anxiety and build the confidence and ability to live independently.
Creating a comfortable and safe environment for them to be alone is of vital importance. Prepare a dedicated space for the Pomeranian, which can be a quiet room or a cozy dog bed. Place items that they are familiar with and like in this space, such as a soft cushion, a beloved toy, old clothes with the owner's scent, etc. These items can make the Pomeranian feel familiar and at ease when it is alone, as if the owner is right beside it. For example, an old T-shirt that the owner often wears, which emits the owner's scent. When the Pomeranian curls up on it, it will feel that the owner is not far away, thus relieving some of the anxiety. At the same time, keep the temperature in this space suitable and the light soft, and avoid the stimulation of noise and strong light, so that the Pomeranian can rest in a relaxed environment.
Adopting a gradual training method is the key. At the beginning, don't be in a hurry to leave the Pomeranian alone for a long time. Start with short absences, such as leaving home for a few minutes, and then gradually increase the time of leaving. Before leaving each time, tell the Pomeranian in a calm and gentle tone that you are going out, and give it a warm greeting and a reward, such as a delicious treat or a gentle stroke, when you come back. Let the Pomeranian understand that the owner will come back after leaving, and that good things will happen when the owner returns. For example, on the first day, you can leave home for 5 minutes. When you come back, praise the Pomeranian for being well-behaved during your absence and give it a small piece of dried meat as a reward. Extend the leaving time to 10 minutes on the second day, and so on. As time goes by, the Pomeranian will gradually get used to the owner's short absences, and its fear of separation will slowly decrease.
During the training process, distracting the Pomeranian's attention can also play a very good auxiliary role. Before preparing to leave home, provide the Pomeranian with some interesting activities to make it focus on them, thus reducing its attention to the owner's departure. You can give it an interactive toy filled with food, such as a treat-dispensing ball. The Pomeranian needs to keep rolling the toy to get the food inside. This process is both interesting and challenging and can attract its attention for a period of time. Or, before leaving, play a short and intense game with the Pomeranian to consume its energy. When the owner leaves, it may choose to rest due to fatigue, reducing the occurrence of anxious behaviors.
In addition, some auxiliary tools can also be used to help Pomeranians relieve separation anxiety. For example, use soothing music or white noise. Soft and soothing classical music or sounds of nature, such as the sound of waves or birdsong, can help Pomeranians relax and reduce their anxiety. When the owner leaves home, turn on this music or white noise, allowing them to spend their alone time accompanied by the gentle sounds. Some pheromone products also have a similar effect. Pheromones are a type of information substance secreted by dogs, which can convey signals of calmness and reassurance. There are pheromone diffusers or sprays on the market that can be used in the Pomeranian's alone space to help create a relaxing atmosphere for them.
During the process of training Pomeranians to be alone, we should always maintain patience and love. Each Pomeranian has a different personality and adaptability. Some Pomeranians may quickly learn to be alone, while others may need more time and patience. When Pomeranians exhibit anxious behaviors, don't punish them severely, because this will only increase their fear and unease. Instead, give them more understanding and encouragement, and guide them to gradually get used to being alone in a gentle way. Every bit of progress that a Pomeranian makes, even if it just barks a few less times than last time, is worthy of our cheering and rewarding. Because every one of our actions is conveying love and trust to the Pomeranian, helping it build the courage to face being alone.
Training Pomeranians to learn to be alone is a process that requires time and patience. However, by creating a comfortable environment for them, adopting a gradual training method, distracting their attention, and using auxiliary tools, we can help them overcome separation anxiety and gradually get used to the time of being alone. Let us accompany Pomeranians to grow with full love and care, enabling them to find a balance between independence and dependence. They can not only enjoy the wonderful time of being closely accompanied by the owner but also spend their own time calmly and happily when the owner is away temporarily, becoming more confident and healthy little angels.