
What if my dog is not responding to the come command?
Dogs ignoring the "come" command isn’t a sign of stubbornness—it’s usually a mix of confusion, distraction, or past experiences shaping their choices.
Imagine you’re cooking dinner in your Brooklyn apartment when your retriever lunges for dropped avocado—toxic for dogs—and you freeze mid-sentence. Teaching your pup to "leave it" isn’t just convenient; it’s lifesaving. Dogs explore the world nose-first, driven by instinct to investigate everything from sidewalk chicken bones to your favorite sneakers. That’s not disobedience—it’s hardwired curiosity amplified by scent (their noses detect 10,000x more than ours!). But here’s the neuroscience bit: when your terrier fixates on that discarded pizza crust, dopamine floods their brain, making self-control biologically challenging. Punishing them for "failing" backfires spectacularly.
Instead, build impulse control through positive reinforcement. Start low-stakes: place a boring item (like a sock) on the floor. The second your dog glances away, click/mark "yes!" and reward with high-value chicken. Repeat until they automatically look at you when spotting temptation. Now add the cue: say "leave it" before they disengage. Gradually up the ante: use kibble, then walk past triggers on-leash. For resource guarding (like growling over stolen socks), practice "trades": toss a treat near the item, letting them choose to abandon it voluntarily. Apartment dwellers—keep "emergency distractions" handy: a jar of peanut butter or a squeaky toy can redirect attention from dangerous items during chaotic moments.
Real-world applications need finesse. During walks, if your beagle locks onto rotting food, pivot sharply and say "let’s go!"—rewarding when they follow. Always carry ultra-tempting treats (freeze-dried liver works wonders) and biodegradable bags—legally required for waste cleanup in cities like Seattle ($125 fines apply!). For home challenges, manage the environment: use baby gates to block office trash cans, and provide "legal" chewing outlets like yak chews. Noise-sensitive neighbors? Teach quiet alerts: when your dog stares at forbidden items instead of barking, praise calmly.
Crucially, never yell or pry objects from their mouth. Forceful methods violate modern welfare standards and can trigger resource guarding. If your pup swallows hazards, skip punishment—rush to the vet (ensure rabies vaccines are current, as mandated nationwide). Culturally, proactive training reflects responsible ownership: informing neighbors about your "leave it" drills builds community goodwill, while leashing dogs near playgrounds avoids fines in public spaces. Remember: patience today prevents emergencies tomorrow. With consistency, "leave it" transforms from a command into trust—your dog choosing you over temptation.
Dogs ignoring the "come" command isn’t a sign of stubbornness—it’s usually a mix of confusion, distraction, or past experiences shaping their choices.
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